Friday, 4 November 2011

Thank you so much!!

I’d just like to say a massive thank you to all my readers, particularly those who visit my blog regularly, and those who take the time to leave me such lovely messages!!
Thank you so much – it really means a lot to me!!
Happy wedding planning and lots of love,
itsabridesworld xx

My DIY 'will you be our bridesmaid' cards

Mr M and I have chosen to have our sisters as our Bridesmaids, and I wanted to give them a little something to remember being asked by – ideally a card.
I searched for WEEKS for an appropriate card, but couldn’t find anything that I really liked, and the ones I did like had a minimum buy attached to them (usually a minimum of 4 cards) which was more than I needed.
So I decided that I’d have a go at making my own using scraps of paper from my own craft boxes!
And this is them!!
They were really quite easy to make (the walk-through for making them can be found under the ‘DIY’ page) and I’d completely finished them both within an hour. The picture isn’t great, but I’m quite chuffed with myself!
If in doubt, have a go at making them yourself!! Most people would appreciate something handmade more than something you could buy off the shelf (though I was totally prepared to do this if I found something I liked!).
For non-DIY cards, check out eBay, Oh So Cherished and Etsy!!

Alivenetwork.co.uk

If you are looking to hire an entertainer or performer for your wedding day, then check out the website alivenetwork.co.uk!
This entertainment agency has the details of hundreds of entertainers across the country; from singers to magicians, bands to bagpipers.
Its really easy to get a quote; once you’ve found someone you like the look of, enter your wedding day details (date, time, location, length of time you want them to be there) and you’ll be sent a personalised quote!
You don’t have to faff about entering your details each time either; add them at the beginning and you can just create a list of  entertainers and send them all your requirements in one quick click!!
Definitely worth a look!!

Thursday, 13 October 2011

Photography - where to start and what to expect


Long after your special day has passed, your wedding photos will be the main reminder of your wedding day. This is why it is really important to find a photographer that understands your needs, whilst understanding your budget.
The single most important thing to look for when looking for a great photographer, is whether or not they are part of the regulated guild ‘The Guild of Photographers’. If they are a registered member of this association then you can trust that they are a quality photographer.
Cost:
The prices of hiring a photographer will vary greatly depending what you require from them. For example, if you only want the ceremony and post-ceremony family shots covered, you’d expect to spend less on the services of a photographer. However, if you wanted multiple photographers to stay for the entire day, covering the Bride getting ready, all the way through to the evening celebration, plus professionally made albums using their photos, you’d need to expect that you’d be paying a considerable amount more!! If you are on a budget, ask for a ‘disk-only’ package. You will get all the images on a disk and you can print, edit and copy them as and when you like. Its a load cheaper than buying an album from them, and plus you get to have free choice over how you want to use the pictures!
Prices will also depend upon how long the photographer has been in the business; a photographer with 20 years professional experience will be considerably more than one who has not long graduated and is just starting up in the wedding business.
Although it can be tempting, most Brides would advise against using a guest/member of the family/friend to be your photographer. Yes, they may have a photography qualification and they would be cheap/free, but surely you want them to enjoy your day, and not have to ‘work’ through it? My sister has a photography qualification but even though she wouldn’t charge to take our photos (which is a tempting offer), she is also a Bridesmaid and cannot physically be in the photo and take the photo at the same time!
Mr M and I have chosen our photographer already; she is a young lady who has just started in the wedding photography business and is a friend of one of my sister. Her prices reflect that she is a ‘newbie’ in the wedding photography world, but the testimonials received from the couples’ weddings she has covered show she comes highly recommended. We are going for a simple half-day coverage – shots from before, during and after the ceremony provided on a high-resolution disk. I am not a fan of traditional wedding albums (or their cost) and I have found a company that will create exactly what I am after, but for a considerably smaller cost.
Previous experience and photography style:
A good photographer will be able to show you examples of previous weddings they have covered; look at the style of the photos.. are they mostly posed shots? Or are they shots where you can imagine the individuals had no idea the photographer was there (in a good way)? The kind of photos the photographer shows you says a lot about their style;each photographer has a style they stick to, so if you are looking for a photographer that shoots naturally (i.e. no set poses), then it’d be unlikely they’d feel comfortable at (or be very good at) taking all posed shots.
If you have a large family, or you want to have photos of certain guests taken, give your photographer a list before (and on) the day. Make sure you voice exactly what you are looking for, and who you want photos with and of, because you do not want to receive your photos a month after the big day and be devastated because you didn’t have a photo taken with your favourite Granny. The photographer may be a professional, but it is partly YOUR responsibility to make sure they know what you want to get from hiring their services. This day only comes once and you cannot recreate missed opportunities like these.
Using props in your wedding photos can be great fun – but make sure this is something that your wedding photographer likes to do and is prepared for. It is unlikely that a really-traditional-posed-family-photo photographer will encourage you to take fun shots where you are jumping about, or holding balloons or signs – these kind of photos will just look awkward and wrong if you and your photographer don’t ‘get’ each other.
Ask your photographer beforehand if you can make some time for you and your partner to have a bit of time away from the rest of the guests. This wedding is about YOU and although getting shots of your guests is an important part of wedding photography, you want to make sure that the photos are as natural as possible – there is nothing worse than posing for a photo whilst you know you have 100 beady eyes staring at you.
REMEMBER:
Wedding photography is often one of the biggest expenses of a couple’s wedding day (excluding food and drinks) and so you want to make sure you get it right. Do your research, MEET your photographer (I cannot explain how important this is – simple contact through the internet is just not good enough to base your decision on) and go with what you feel is right!

Autumn weddings - photo inspiration


With all the excitement of setting a date for my marriage to Mr M, I jumped straight into thinking about winter wedding inspiration and totally bypassed all you autumn Brides!
Autumn is my second favourite season – the temperature may drop yes, but the sun still shines, and I love the transition you see in the natural environment between summer, autumn and winter.
The most obvious colour scheme to lean towards if you are planning an autumn wedding would be yellows, oranges, reds and browns, as this ties in perfectly with your surrounding environment. Of course, you can go against the grain and not use these colours at all! I’ve seen plenty of Brides who have gone for navy blue, or fushia pink instead and it hasn’t looked out of place at all!
Use the natural environment to your advantage; grab handfuls of different coloured leaves and dry them out to use as confetti or table decorations, carve numbers into pumpkins to use as a multi-functional table centrepiece and table number! No one will think of you as silly; in fact your guests will most probably be impressed with how you have incorporated the changing seasons into the big change that is happening in your life!
Check out these fab inspirational images to give your wedding dreams some substance and guidance!

Wedding insurance - is it worth it?


These days people feel like they should insure everything they value in case of any problems arising, and weddings are no different.
With couples pouring so much money into their special day, many choose to protect themselves by taking out wedding insurance. Wedding insurance can protect against problems with your suppliers, wedding dress and suit damage, extreme weather and cancellation due to illness or bereavement.
Wedding insurance is definitely something Mr M and I will be taking out. Although our wedding budget isn’t huge and compared to some couples we don’t have quite so much to ‘lose’, issues could arise due to the weather at the time of year we are holding our big day – winter.
Wedding insurance can cost as little as £18.20 (a one off payment), and can be tailored to your specification. Many companies offer different bands of insurance, based upon how much you consider your wedding to be worth (for example, you have paid a total of £5,000/£10,000/£20,000 for your wedding). Of course every penny spent on something like wedding insurance is an extra cost that you’ll have to work into your budget, and it may not even be  needed in the end, but I’d personally have peace of mind and spend £20 to protect against loosing £5000.
There are loads of companies which offer wedding insurance; some are very familiar high street names! The most important thing to do is research which one is best for YOU and YOUR wedding. Many can be tailored to your needs; for example if you are not having a cake, you can choose not to cover that in favour of protecting your ‘priceless’ shoes.
What’s even better for Bride’s planning a wedding that isn’t imminent, is that some companies allow you to purchase the insurance up to 2 years in advance, which gives you piece of mind – especially in this financial climate where businesses are no longer guaranteed to be stable.
Here are just a few of the companies Mr M and I are considering purchasing from:
  • Debenhams
  • John Lewis
  • E and L
  • Ecclesiastical
Links to the websites mentioned above can be found in the Directory, but it could also be worth your while to visit a comparison website and see if there are any better deals out there!! Moneysupermarket.com compares lots of different companies for you!